v3.1: deprecate the --cuda cli argument (backport of #9055) (#9066)
* deprecate the --cuda cli argument (#9055)
deprecate the CUDA cli argument
(cherry picked from commit 7aabaec63290d694d8ac90d2e1431af5dcd39ef0)
* fix order of args
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Co-authored-by: Alex Pyattaev <alex.pyattaev@anza.xyz>